The chosen-one story is everywhere, and most of the time the chosen one is thrilled about it. The version that actually moves people is the opposite: someone who is handed a destiny they never asked for and would return if there were a counter to return it to.
Chosen, not eager
A heroine who wants the power is a wish-fulfillment fantasy, and there is nothing wrong with that. But a heroine who is afraid of what is waking in her — who liked her small ordinary life and is watching it end — is a person. You worry about her. You want her to be okay in a way you never worry about the eager ones.
The gift that is also a target
In the best of these stories the thing that makes the heroine special is the same thing that makes her hunted. Her gift is not a prize; it is a reason for powerful people to want her controlled, or gone. That tension — special and endangered by the specialness — is what keeps the pages turning.
In the Bloodbound Houses
Delia Ashcroft was twenty-eight and content before a blood test told her what she was. What wakes in her is rare enough that six immortal families have opinions about whether she should be allowed to live with it. She does not want it. She would give it back. That is exactly why you root for her.
A destiny she would return, if there were a counter to return it to.